Hi guys,
Thank you all for your comments! As much as I was hoping this post would just die off and be forgotten, I can't let it end that way. My name is on the line and I must post a followup. I hope you will all give me a few moments...
Let me start by saying this, I wish I would have never made the posts I have made in the recent past. The person I was referring to and I have made amends. Honestly, unfortunately, he was just the guy that was a victim of my stresses of being a Supervising Sound Mixer for so long and the comments I had received on other shows from production and crew about other sound mixers not using the boom. Yes, I was not the SSM on this show, so my job was to just shut up, do my job, and not make comments.
Honestly, when I started mixing reality in '98 we were using a Wendt X4 and sending a single channel to the camera, that was the only mix for the show. Literally we would dial up our main three players on wireless and boom up to an additional twenty people. That's where my reality boom attitude came from. My longest boom session was 2.5 hours. While I have changed with the gear, my boom attitude did not (for better or worse.) I don't boom if the wires can cover it, but when unwired players show up in the game I'm not afraid to get in there. Most camera guys understand this and will work with us.
My resolve conversation with the mixer I mentioned opened my mind to a different way of thinking! He wouldn't worry about booming because he knew I had it. He would then concentrate on his mix doing the best he could to mix our players on mic. Look, we all make mistakes, and have said things we regret. This was my moment to say things I regret. This was an eye opening experience that will stick with me the rest of my career. If I have an issue, it won't be brought up on the web, it will be resolved man to man, the way it should be! However, next time I have an issue I will step back and put myself in the other mixer's shoes and try to see what they are doing and thinking before I make a judgement.
Please forgive me for my lack of professionalism in this matter! I know that our reputation is the only thing we have going for us. Yes, I know I over stepped my grounds and made a very unprofessional move. Know that I have never done anything like this in my prior 14 years of mixing location sound, and it will never happen again!
BTW, that is me with the goat on a beach in Chile. The DP took that photo while I was out recording off camera FX tracks.
Thank you guys for understanding, tolerating, and forgiving my lack of professionalism. I appreciate all the input that comes from the members of this group!!!